When using a crystal.... I always refer to the CHIP datasheet for recommendations. The ATMEL datasheet says 12-22pF. I usually use 20pF with 16MHZ CPU crystals and have no issues. (I usually recycle crystals from old electronics and have good results with no specs available.) That part, 535-9810-1-ND, should work fine but you might get best results with lower value (12-15pF) parts.