Thanks mike,
Updated circuit works now.
Luckily on the actual bread board I messed up the jumper wire placement on the Arduino input to the Optocoupler connected the wire to pin 3 (NC), so the fact I left off the resistor didn't matter as the circuit wasn't made through the internal LED so I didn't blow it or burn out the pin.
Did discover that the one inverter I have turns itself off if there appears to be no EL wire connected , so swapped it for one that's not so smart!!