Subject line is misleading, I'd suggest something like: "how to send data array to processing" or "how to use serial link".
Have you seen this section:
http://forum.arduino.cc/index.php?board=12.0FFT library has an example, that's printing out results to PC serial monitor window.
BTW, I published new blog-page, with source code to display fft on the TFT (320x480) screen, spectrogram & bargraph representation.
All you have to do, is re-route data flow from TFT to processing, but I can't help you on this, as I never used Processing before.