Raschemmel,
Perhaps I'm totally confused and have not read this thread carefully enough, but I suspect the measurements you have been making of the coil with diode are not valid at all. I was alerted to this and puzzled a while ago by the oscilloscope traces you posted that showed the voltage going up to about 17V despite the presence of the diode, even allowing for some forward turn-on time.
What I think is happening with your test circuit is as follows. The coil (choke) you are using looks
here as if it will have a resistance of only a few mΩ. So, even with the pulse duration of only 6μs, I believe you are virtually shorting out your 10V power supply. My hypothesis is that the voltage going up to 17V and then ringing is simply the response of your power supply recovering after the short-circuit. Does this make sense?
I suggest you use a relay coil instead of the 100 µH radio frequency choke.
I also suggest you temporarily replace the coil and diode by a resistor having a resistance fairly close to the resistance of your coil. You will then be able to check whether you get nice fast transitions displayed on your oscilloscope. Have you trimmed (compensated) your oscilloscope probes?
I don't understand all the fuss in this thread about measuring across the inductor. I suggest you continue to measure at the MOSFET drain but also check (using the other channel of your oscilloscope) that your 10V power supply remains essentially constant throughout. You may need to add decoupling to the 10V power supply (close to the coil and MOSFET). If your 10V supply is constant, there is no need to make differential measurement across the inductor.