Hmm. Duemilanove... Does it have a power jumper or switch for selecting between USB and "external" power? Is that correctly installed/switched? For the computer to not recognize the FTDI at all, there is not a lot that could be wrong. if it recognized the FTDI, but wouldn't "upload" (for example), then there would be debugging steps...
The chips we have are not counterfeit as they say FTDI on them
Heh. So did the counterfeits. (that's what makes them counterfeits rather than clones.)
and I know they were purchased from digikey or mouser (only suppliers they use)
That, however, is a pretty good indication that they
are genuine.