I look for an Arduino simulator to comunicate in MIDI with some software.

I don't have a Mac myself, so I can't try it, but Google came up with this: ‎Pocket MIDI on the Mac App Store

If you can't find an off-the-shelf app that does what you need, you can always use Juce: JUCE: Tutorial: Create MIDI data
I haven't used it in any large projects, but it was pretty easy to get the examples working.