Some basic HELP PLEASE! I'm getting crazy!

Do you want the motor also to be reversible ? If so, you also need to look at an H-Bridge or a controller which incorporates one.

I guess if your existing controller is similar to this 12v-40v 10a modulation pwm dc motor speed control switch governor Sale - Banggood.com sold out-arrival notice-arrival notice, it will have a fuse and replacing this might at least temporarily solve your problem.