Apologies for the bad diagrams, I have simplified this by removing control inputs (switches and PIR's) to focus on the relay, as I believe that is where the problem arises. The original Fritz schematic is very confusing, as it treats the contact points on the relay in a peculiar way, so I have just included a BB diagram, which is a more accurate reflection of what I have wired up.
I hope this diagram is more readable:-

As I mentioned in the OP, the logic signal goes correctly to the relay, as evidenced by the relays onboard LEDs which light up according to requirements. The issue to me seems to be in the 12v circuit. The relays should just switch 12v polarity to the linear actuator to change direction. The poles are being fed 12vDC yet
sometimes when they switch, they just go from Positive 12v to a neg range of between -0.3V to -7v.
Reading the responses, I am still confused:-
1) I think the suggestion from Southpark to connect the negative from the 5v to the 12v negative is incorrect, and I have not done this. In my revised diagram, I have separated out the 12v negative in black and 5v negative in Grey wire color.
2) The recommendation to pair positive and negative supplies is in fact how I have done this. I have read articles about star grounding, which is what I believe I have done.
3) I have NOT connected the negative 5v to the relay on the signal side, as I have read elsewhere.
4) My understanding of a bridge rectifier is to switch ac to dc. So would it not in fact stop the system from reversing polarity to the actuator when required?
5) Can anyone explain why the 12v output from the relays would switch to a negative value, less than required (-0.7 to -8v). Is this because of the long leads between the relays and the actuator? (2.5meters).