1602 LCD Keypad Shield

how do i connect the headers with normal female cables, for extrnal use

i dont want to (click) the shield directly on the Arduino. but use it external.

It sounds like you need some jumper cables, like these! |500x500

You'll need to connect A0 (for the buttons) and D4 through D10 (for the LCD) along with +5V and GND for power. That's ten wires.

Thanks it works !!! :) :)