modified above post to reflect the questions
This is really not a good procedure since the reasons for my original questions are now no longer part of the thread. It makes me look like an idiot and it makes it hard for anyone who reads this in the future to follow the entire troubleshooting procedure.
Your answer to #6 does not mention anything about the second row of information. Did anything appear? Were there extra spaces?
sry i only but connected ones here are the non connected ones
I can't believe that your display shows anything with pins 3 and/or 5 floating.
Don