5V rail connected to 12V via 10K resistor ok?

Do you Not want the 5V circuit and the 12V circuit to have common ground?
In that case use an optoisolator.

LED power for the 2 otpo's can be the 12V source, don't forget current limit resistor.
Open collector/open drain output can pull the separate 10K resistors low to the 5V GND and the 12V GND.

Example:
http://www.digikey.com/product-detail/en/LTV-826/160-1362-5-ND/385832