When first turned on, the lights have very low resistance so there is a current surge for a very short time. This is probably causing the noise. Try using another power outlet a distance from this one causing the problem.
The pickup is before the amplifier that drives the speakers, this is where the audio signal
is small and vulnerable to pick-up. Is that physically close to the relays or their wiring?
If so move it.
I'm thinking there is something with power
when a relay is swiching a 25watt light, I can hear a little "pop" in my speaker
when the same relay in switching on and off a 75watt light, I can hear a louder "pop"
Its not a dip in supply, its electromagnetic interference to the parts of the audio circuit
where the signals are small, you need distance, shielding, RFI suppression, careful
attention to ground layout to deal with such an issue.
You could try using a solid state relay instead of the mechanical relay. The mechanical relay opens and closes anywhere in the AC sine wave. A "zero crossing" solid state relay opens and closes exactly at the zero mark of a sine wave which is the noise-free location. There may be other issues as well, but it is easy to install a SSR and try it out.
Hi,
What is your amplifier, how long are the speaker leads, long leads act as an antenna and with EMF from the relay switching feedback to the low signal input of your amplifier.
What do you have connected to your amplifier?