Adding 2 buttons for increase or decrease value in for loop

You need to make your code non blocking (see examples of non blocking code or blink without delay).
You need to replace delay with timers. Once you have done that you can simply add a button to a digital input and monitor that.
Forget about the interrupts suggested above. That will solve your current problem, but not the next...
Interrupts are for things that cannot wait (tachometers in motors).

https://forum.arduino.cc/t/flashing-multiple-leds-at-the-same-time/1065564/8