I was able to find a DS3231 in a junk box that was given to me by a friend (that just retired). Looks just like the one in the pic and its still sealed in the anti-static pkg. So I am assuming its good.
Can I get a pointer on where I can download the library and directions to wire it up ?
If you have a 5V Arduino such as the Uno or Nano, then connect the 5v pin to an Arduino 5V pin, GND to an Arduino GND pin, SDA to the Arduino A4 pin and SCL to the Arduino A5 pin
Speculation. That is a general warning that is not founded on the same IC. I doubt that they've done the DS3231 because of the complexity of the internal crystal, and also because it's produced legitimately in such huge quantities that the price is already very low. I want to see evidence of that before I cry foul.
I have also not seen any user reports of any problems with the DS3231, and none of the many IC's that I've obtained from diverse sources has had any problem.
I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm just saying we shouldn't be pointing fingers where there isn't actually any fraud.