Arduino for home control?

Sure, you can roll your own provided the shield doesn't interfere. I'll have to order one and see how accessable the pins are for the RS485 connector. Plug-n-play would be even better but I suspect that won't happen unless I design my own ethernet shield.

Graynomad - I am primarily designing for security but the control portion will likely be coarse granularity. I haven't completely thought that all out yet. I have some low voltage (12vdc) controls already in place (light switches, etc) so the interfacing should be fairly simple. I may have to mux a few things if my granularity gets too coarse.

I'll share more as I make design progress.