Arduino Lilypad and Mac Serial Ports

I am a novice attempting to work with Ardunio Lilypad ATMega32u4 for an e-textiles project. I am having trouble getting the lilypad set up and programmed. I read that there is known problem with finding the port for this lilypad on newer macs amazon review. I am using a Macbook Pro, early 2015 running OS X Version 10.11.6. I will outline the steps I have taken and things I have tried below. I'm hoping someone can help me as my serial ports are still not showing up in the Arduino software.

The lilypad I purchased has a direct connection from the board to the USB. It does not require and FTDI board to connect to USB. When I try to find the directions for getting started on the Arduino website for this exact board, I am directed to a [deadlink on the lilypad website].

Instead I followed the directions on this page assuming they would be similar.

I downloaded the arduino environment, installed it, and connected the lilypad through my usb port. When I go to choose my board the "Lilypad ATMega32u4" is not an option. I have checked the boards manager but it does not appear to be a choice. I have seen this board also refereed to as "Lilypad Arduino USB" on the lilypad cite, and that is a choice, so I selected it.

When I go to choose my port, "Serial Port" is greyed out and no ports show up except the "/dev/cu/Bluetooth-Incoming-Port". I have attempted to program using this port, but I do not think it is the port my Lilypad is plugged into, since I'm running errors, and using a USB cord, not Bluetooth.

The programmer I have selected is the "AVRISP mkll" as it was automatically selected when I opened the program. I may need to change this, but I have no knowledge of which programmer to use.

I tried downloading the FTDI Driver software even though I am not using an FTDI Driver, just in case. I restarted the computer and tried again. This changed nothing.

I opened the "Blink" Example as instructed and attempted to upload the program to my lilypad with these settings.

I have copied the error message in full, verbose detail and will share if it if anyone thinks it will be useful. The short version of the error reads as follows:

"Programmer is not responding. Problem uploading to board. See Arduino Troubleshooting for suggestions."

I scrolled through the Troubleshooting page, and found a section titled "Why doesn't my board show in the Tools | Serial Port menu ?". I don't see any new solutions (many are about downloading/updating the FTDI Driver software, which I have done) or solutions applicable to my situation.

Please send any thoughts, suggestions or troubleshooting advice. I have tried everything I have found/understand.

Open the blink example. Choose upload and then push the lilypad reset button. Pushing reset causes the bootloader to run. The computer and then the IDE should find the bootloader serial port and upload the code. If the board is not programmed as a serial device it will not have a serial port. You may have to fiddle a bit to find the right time to press the reset button. This usually solves your problem.

Thank you for your help. I will play with hitting upload and then the reset button on the board. I have seen in other places that the reset button needs to be hit twice. Is that the case in this scenario?

Thank you!