Arduino pro mini- Troubleshooting with programer uploading

I have got a problem trying to upload a program to my arduino mini 3.3v with an ft232 programer(ports: vcc, gnd, txd, rxd, rts, cts). The ttl ports of my board are: blk, gnd, vcc, rxi, txo, grn.
Note: I have drivers intalled, have selected the programer in ports and when I verify the program no errors are shown. When I upload the progran to an arduino mega board it works perfectly fine.

The error that the console gives is: arvdude stkl500_recv(): programmer is not responding.
I would like to know how to connect to my arduino mini 3.3v board or how to fix this error.
Thanks