arduino + web + lights

greetings make there !! how to control the lights with php .. give examples tutrorial for program code

What have you tried?
Have you got a working Arduino program that controls your lights without any web connection?
That would be a good place to start. Start simple.

Study the examples that come with the Arduino IDE. There are also many tutorials on this site and elsewhere.

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how to control the lights with php

How do you intend to run PHP on the Arduino?