Ardweeny Programming Failure - Strange Problem

I've given it a test.
I added a header pin to the DTR hole ( i have not yet cut the trace going to the RST pin, and connect that pin to the DTR hole with a wire as suggested)
Using the pictures as a guide, I connected the programming header on the Ardweeny to the B75937 with jumper wires. When I try to upload a sketch from the Arduino 1.01 IDE, I get an error:

avrdude: stk500_getsync(): not in sync: resp=0x00

I swapped the Tx/Rx connections and tried again. But I get the same error.

I am connecting like this:
on the Ardweeny, there is a six pin programming header, let's call it pin 1-6 where pin 1 is GND.

Ardweeny - B75937  
1(GND) - GND
2 - Nothing
3 - 5v
4 - Txd
5 - Rxd
6 - DTR

I have installed the windows64 driver from here:Pololu - CP2102 USB-to-Serial Bridge Driver Installation

In Arduino IDE, I a have selected Arduino Duemillnove w/ATmega328 on COM 5

Any ideas?