AT64 bad fuses?

Hi ,
I have started a thread over here:

basically I connected the arduino as an isp, but i connected the ftdi the wrong way round on the arduino,

I dont know if it was that or something else, but now I cant read the chip , it looks as if the fuses are set wrong,

All my efforts are described in the other thread, I was just hoping that maybe somebody over here might have a suggestion or two for ressurection