I’m a noob that needs some help…I am trying to program an ATTINY85 with the Sparkfun Tiny Programmer https://www.sparkfun.com/products/11460. I can’t get Atmel Studio 6 to see it, the only tool available is the Simulator. I installed the drivers from Sparkfun.
The drivers you need to control a programmer form Atmel Studio are not the same ones that you need to drive it from avrdude (which is what the Arduino IDE uses). I have an AVRISP MkII and I have to swap the drivers every time I switch from using Arduino IDE for programming a chip to use Atmel Studio. Therefore, unless someone has written a driver for using that programmer with Atmel Studio, or that programmwer emulates another programmer that has a supported driver, then using that programmer from Atmel Studio may not be possible.
However, you should be able to get Atmel Studio to generate a hex file, then use your programmer with avrdude to program the ATtiny,
The other question I had was about RSTDISBL. I am fine with not being able to reprogram the ATTINY, but I don’t know how to set that fuse.
You can use your programmer with avrdude. Either consult the avrdude manual, or see the last section of this article http://miscsolutions.wordpress.com/2011/08/09/prototyping-small-embedded-projects-with-arduino/ (it talks about programming the fuses on an atmega328p, but the principle is the same with an ATtiny).