Attiny85+baudrate - avrdude commands - wrong settings

Hi, in here!!!

Today my question is about communication with the attiny 85.

I dont know how far or close I am, but I am playing the tx, rx communication from the attiny85. But all it return are "?" marks.

  1. Running Arduino IDE 1.8.11, with an arduino uno with capisistor on reset
  2. I can burn the bootloader @8mhz, is say's done. So I suppose
  3. I can opload skethes to the attiny85 through SPI setup (mosi,miso).
  4. it runs but nothing readable output, it blink on every 0.5 sec, as coded

Some output:

avrdude -P com10 -p t85 -b 9600 -c arduino -v

avrdude: Version 5.10, compiled on Jan 19 2010 at 10:45:23
         Copyright (c) 2000-2005 Brian Dean, http://www.bdmicro.com/
         Copyright (c) 2007-2009 Joerg Wunsch

         System wide configuration file is "C:\WinAVR-20100110\bin\avrdude.conf"

         Using Port                    : com10
         Using Programmer              : arduino
         Overriding Baud Rate          : 9600
avrdude: stk500_getsync(): not in sync: resp=0xff

avrdude done.  Thank you.

The sketch:

#include <SoftwareSerial.h>

SoftwareSerial Monitor(3, 4);

void setup() {
  
Monitor.begin(9600); 
pinMode(1, OUTPUT);
pinMode(3, INPUT);
pinMode(4, OUTPUT);
}

void loop() {
  digitalWrite(1, HIGH);
  Monitor.println("LED on");
  delay(1000);
  digitalWrite(1, LOW);
  Monitor.println("LED off");
  delay(1000);
  if (Monitor.available()>0){
    String s1 = Monitor.readString();
    Monitor.println(s1);
    } 
}

But some people talk about, the cpu clock settings:

attiny.menu.clock.internal8.build.f_cpu=8000000L

Is it here, it needs to be changed or needed missing resistors on rx,tx pins or what could it be?

btw. I can either get it to work correct on the SPI pins 5 and 7, it also grap I am getting...So it must be a setting somewhere I think.

I made a little screenshot, please take a look.

And my working setup, arduino workbench

UPDATE:

It runs corretly on my phone through bluetooth, led is on/off. But not on my computer how can that be...?