Avrdude: stk500_getsync() ... : not in sync

OK. Yes, when I assign LED = 2, pin 11 on the chip flashes the led.

I can now make each of the pins cycle (yay!), except pin 4, which is PB3. The ATTiny44 data sheet says "To use pin PB3 as an I/O pin, instead of RESET pin, program (‘0’) RSTDISBL fuse." Do you know how to do that?