basic instructions on using and programming the bluetooth bee

I am young and new to arduino, and do not have enough experience to figure out many online tutorials on the subject. Could I get some very basic instructions? There are no kits I can find with kid-friendly instructions, and I am unfamiliar with many of the concepts I see in tutorials.

The Bluetooth Bee is just a comprehensive package for a plain vanilla HC-05 made especially to confuse you. You should really only need to know four connections - power, gnd, Tx, Rx.

You might find the following background notes useful

http://homepages.ihug.com.au/~npyner/Arduino/GUIDE_2BT.pdf
http://homepages.ihug.com.au/~npyner/Arduino/BT_2_WAY.ino

They are very basic, and do not specifically address the Bee, but the principles are the same.