I'd like to build this, but i'm not sure if Arduino is able to handle all of this things.
With a remote (the standard VISA 6-button blue remote) I want to command one single 220V lamp.
Key 1; lamp always on
Key 2; lamp always off
Key 3; lamp on when a movement sensor reactm off after 60 seconds
Key 4; lamp on, auto-off after 60 seconds
If I can realize this with Arduino ... tell me where to start and wich component must i buy, other than arduino itself !!!
Well the data sheet says the minimum trigger is 10ma, so you should be good.
Though, I always like to play it safe and just use a transistor.
And radio sensor?
The Arduino doesn't come with a RF receiver, transmitter, or transceiver.
I'm not 100% sure what kind of remote it is, but if it's for a light I would be willing to bet it's an Infrared remote, rather than RF, though I'm more often wrong than right. :)
Perhaps you could hack this one for input to arduino : http://www.dealextreme.com/details.dx/sku.23633
Disconnect the alarm from the receiver and connect the signal to an arduino input pin.
Have a search on that site for other remote control options
These items usually have a capability to change codes so the transmitters wont conflict with each other.
This approach will require some electronics tinkering to get it going but has the advantage that you don't need to get near the mains voltage.