I need to connect two arduino unos with a wired connection . What hardware would be the best for this. I need to control two relays on each end and send three sensor values back from the other end. Displays on each end. LAN running thru a switch?
I'd likely use RS422/485 differential. Get yourself a couple of SN75179BDR (or equivalent) for full-duplex operation. Use some Cat5e cable (use twisted-pairs for each differential pair) and RJ45 jacks.