Bluetooth LE ESP32 <=> Arduino

Dear community,

I have working Bluetooth LE code for communication between ESP 32 and Android / Windows 10 App. I am using these libraries:
#include <BLEDevice.h>
#include <BLEServer.h>
#include <BLEUtils.h>
#include <BLE2902.h>

The only problem is that connection least only 10 seconds. After that the device disconnect. Looks like the problem is DEFAULT_ENABLE_UPDATE_REQUEST (update timeout is often 10 seconds in default). I looked into headers and found this updateConnParams but it not help.

The question is if there is a way how to turn off the DEFAULT_ENABLE_UPDATE_REQUEST or if there is any other BLE Arduino library which will work with ESP32 and have this feature?

Thanks for help!