boot loader elegoo

Using Arduino Avrdude, stk500, Bootloader issues
#1

hello

which connector should be used to load a boot loader on my uno ICSP or HEADER 3X clone card Elegoo

thank for your reply

see pictures attached

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#2

The one near the Italian Style bump:

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#3