Hello bloopbloop160,
first of all if my posting created bad feelings I want to say I'm verry sorry this was not my intention.
I'm not a moderator and I don't try to achieve to become one. Even if I would I estimate the moderators would say no because I have a straight forward way to be honest which can cause bad feelings.
I want to say thank you that you wrote about the real reasons why you write postings like you do. With knowing it I can change to a style of answering that - hopefully - is helpful. If you wish that I answer not anymore to you I obey.
Still posting a complete sketch will help to understand what you have coded so far.
Again: I want to say I'm really sorry if my posting caused bad feelings.
best regards Stefan