When I've done some work with something, e.g. using IR controllers to send commands to an Arduino, I delight in "making do" with bits and pieces salvaged from my junk box.
When getting started, I like to give myself advantages, if I can, and it isn't too expensive.
nuelectronics.com have an IR sensor and a suitable IR controller for, combined, about $8, plus the cost of mailing them to you from the UK. Might be worth considerering....
Nah, just rip the receiver out of an old VCR, DVD or a junk PC/laptop with an IRDA transmitter/receiver. Old type TVs with a cathode ray tube can be shocking so if you are going to be a Darwin candidate, have a will ready.
Most are simple and run on +5volts and put out a nice +5V square wave.