CAN BUS sender pausing when receiver connected

It appears to me you have problems with termination, it sounds like you are shorting it out. Post a schematic not a frizzy thing and explain how you have the bus at 600 ohms. Include links to technical information on each hardware device. Also your bus should be at about 60 ohms. That is the equivalent of two 120 Ohm resistors on each end of the bus and none on any other nodes.