I don't know I expressed my curiosity to the topic well...
I have a mini fan, and I want to switch it with Arduino(photo attatched: fan PCB).
But instead of controlling the motor itself with Arduino, I just want to give an switch 'SIGNAL' only.
I think I can achieve it by giving a small current to the correct pin of the switch with Arduino, but is it actually possible?
You could attach a pair of wires to either 1&4 or 2&3 on your picture. The wires would go to the outputs of an ordinary opto isolator like 4N35. An Arduino digital output would be connected to the opto isolator input.
Whether an opto coupler would work depends on the current the switch handles and whether the circuit
expects the voltage across the switch to drop to very small values or not.
Basically without the circuit diagram the answer is "maybe, maybe not".