No matter what I try or which tutorial I follow I am totally unable to upload the bootloader to the atmega328-p, when I plug it into my computer I see the device show up over serial, but attempting to program it ends in the arduino ide timing out. I was trying to upload a bootloader with an arduino nano as an ISP but again this timed out and failed. Im at a bit of a loss here and want to know if the schematic is the issue.
MISO, MOSI, SCK, +, GND are all male header pins that i attach wires too, I was just holding the wire to the RESET pin on the chip as I don't have a male header for that.