Cant program using ebay usbtottl and anarduino

I am not seeing alot of help with this board or programmer here are the links to what I have

anarduino http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=170542798559&ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT

usb to ttl http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=120630739302&ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT

I wired up the usb to ttl with 4 wires tx to tx rx to rx ground to one of the grounds on the anarduino board my board has spot for 2 grounds does it need both and 5+ to 5+

I selecting several board versions off the tools menu in arduino 0021 (what board should I select) tried several different reset delays

First of all, has the USB-TTL showed up as a serial port on your PC yet?

yes it is port3

i get this error

Binary sketch size: 1010 bytes (of a 30720 byte maximum) avrdude: stk500_getsync(): not in sync: resp=0x00 avrdude: stk500_disable(): protocol error, expect=0x14, resp=0x51

Have you tried swapping the rx & tx over?