Can't Upload to Pro Micro without resetting EVERY time.

Hey guys, I'm new to this forum this is my first post. (I'm a noob) I recently bought a knockoff Pro Micro 3.3v from ebay. I installed all the drivers, everything, added the board to the IDE. Initially I tried uploading a blinky sketch to make the Rx/TX blink, and it worked. But since then, I could not upload anything to the board. Every time I tried uploading, the serial port would disconnecct and i would get the sound of a device disconnecting on windows 10. The leds would start blinking rapidly, and i would have to disconnect, and then reconnect to get the serial port recognized. I searched alot and finally found out that resetting would launch the bootloader and hopefully do the trick. It worked but now i can only upload by resetting each and every time before a sketch. Is this normal? Thanks in advanced guys.