Choosing Bluetooth Dongle - Help

I am trying to make a project which will have 3 aspects

ps3 Controller

sending "island" - Arduino, XBee, XBee shield, USB Shield, Bluetooth Dongle

Recieving project - Arduino ?, XBee (Remote Control Car, ROV, Quadcopter)

I have seen a variety of videos on YouTube and gleaned some information.

I gathered that a list of Bluetooth Dongles are out there, anyone have that address?

I would also appreciate any other links that would be helpful to me, if you have any could you post?

Thanks, Jared