Christmas lights -Synced (running alongside) music

Hi guys, I need some guidance..

I have set up an 8 port relay with power points. This is all working great, and I can program the arduino to run a loop that turns lights on and off. I even have a big range of loops I can play in a row to give the impression of being in time with a song (I have measured BMP and can keep in time).

What I need to somehow do, is play an MP3 at the same time, this is not something I know how to do... I am assuming I can send a start signal from a PC, but not sure how. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Coding examples of starting an MP3 from a PC and also starting the arduino running its program would be great. (or a suitable alternative).

Have you looked into the program "Processing"? There is a library for mp3 playback, and the program can be interface with your Arduino via serial. If you post the code, that would help immensely.

That certainly looks like it might be what I want.... thanks for that...