Code cannot upload in to lilypad using ftdi module

I have connect all the required connections. Lilypad is not detecting but Arduino idea while uploading it is showing an error as programmer is not responding

Asdfghjkl1234:
Lilypad is not detecting but Arduino idea while uploading it is showing an error as programmer is not responding

Huh?

Which lilypad; there seem to he multiple versions nowadays. 168 / 328 based or 32U4 based.

Anyway, the computer will never detect a lilypad if you use the adaptor, it will detect a serial port.