How are you detecting the alarm? Is the INT1 pin connected to something? Does it have the required puill-up resistor for an open-drain output? Do you just read bit 3 of the Control_2 register?
Obviously, you need some sleep. You were so tired, you forgot to post your code, and describe what it actually does, and how that differs from what you want.
Leaving the sarcasm aside (very mature, congrat), i had the same problem of Rakzorg. I can't figure out how to set alarms on my pcf8523. I've tried the same libraries with no results. I've asked Rakzorg the solution because after two weeks of searching and trying, I can't find a solution to this problem. He found the solution instead, and i'm asking some help just this.