Thanks for the examples bld. I tested them and they didn't do what I am looking to get done. Unfortunately, if( time ==money) it is just easier and cheaper to get the ez-8 from efx-tek. I appreciate all the help, and I was hoping that it would have been easier, but I have to step away from this for awhile. I am also looking at cubloc to tackle this.
I reviewed the pages that you suggested, and I see the issues I was tripping up on...but I still am having problems "seeing" how the milli() function is called and used.
I'll stick to the single pin delay stuff for awhile and leave the multiple pin control to other products.