Controlling 2 WS2812b strips with a NANO and 3 buttons

Here is another version of the code using an additional library. Didn't test it but it should change the led strip only when releasing the buttons.

#include <FastLED.h>
#include <JC_Button.h>          // https://github.com/JChristensen/JC_Button
/*
   No copyright, use it at your own risks ;-)
*/
// Define the arrays of leds
#define PIN_STRIP1 5
#define PIN_STRIP2 3
#define COLOR_ORDER GRB
#define LED_TYPE WS2812
#define NUM_LEDS 4
uint8_t max_bright = 255;
struct CRGB leds1[NUM_LEDS];
struct CRGB leds2[NUM_LEDS];
// Colors for strip 1 using CRGB constants from FastLED library
int ledColor1[4] = {CRGB::AliceBlue, CRGB::Aqua, CRGB::CornflowerBlue, CRGB::Blue}; 
// Example colors with HEX codes for strip 2
int ledColor2[4] = {0xf79b9b, 0xe8795a, 0xff0000, 0x721005}; 

// Define buttons
const byte 
  PIN_BUTTON1 (9),
  PIN_BUTTON2 (6),
  PIN_BUTTON_RESET (7);
Button BUTTON1(PIN_BUTTON1);
Button BUTTON2(PIN_BUTTON2);
Button BUTTON_RESET(PIN_BUTTON_RESET);

// Global vars
byte NumStrip1 = 0;
byte NumStrip2 = 0;

void setup() {
  LEDS.addLeds<LED_TYPE, PIN_STRIP1, COLOR_ORDER>(leds1, NUM_LEDS);
  LEDS.addLeds<LED_TYPE, PIN_STRIP2, COLOR_ORDER>(leds2, NUM_LEDS);
  FastLED.setBrightness(max_bright);
  FastLED.clear();
  FastLED.show();
  // Connect buttons like this :
  //  GND -- Button -- Pin
  //  pinMode(PIN_BUTTON1, INPUT_PULLUP); // Button 1
  //  pinMode(PIN_BUTTON2, INPUT_PULLUP); // Button 2
  //  pinMode(PIN_BUTTON_RESET, INPUT_PULLUP); // Reset button
  BUTTON1.begin();
  BUTTON2.begin();
  BUTTON_RESET.begin();
}

void loop() {
  Checkbuttons();
}

void Checkbuttons()
{
  BUTTON1.read(); // read BUTTON1
  if (BUTTON1.wasReleased()) ChangeStrip1 ();
  BUTTON2.read(); // read BUTTON2
  if (BUTTON2.wasReleased()) ChangeStrip2 ();
  BUTTON_RESET.read(); // read Reset BUTTON 
  if (BUTTON_RESET.wasReleased()) ResetStrips ();
  
//  bool StateB1 = digitalRead(PIN_BUTTON1);
//  delay(50);
//  bool StateB2 = digitalRead(PIN_BUTTON2);
//  delay(50);
//  bool StateBReset = digitalRead(PIN_BUTTON_RESET);
//  delay(50);
//
//  if (!StateB1) 
//  if (!StateB2) ChangeStrip2 ();
//  if (!StateBReset) ResetStrips ();
}

void ChangeStrip1 () {
  leds1[NumStrip1] = ledColor1[NumStrip1];
  NumStrip1 = min(NumStrip1 + 1, NUM_LEDS - 1);
  FastLED.show();
}

void ChangeStrip2 () {
  leds2[NumStrip2] = ledColor2[NumStrip2];
  NumStrip2 = min(NumStrip2 + 1, NUM_LEDS - 1);
  FastLED.show();
}

void ResetStrips () {
  FastLED.clear();
  NumStrip1 = 0;
  NumStrip2 = 0;
  FastLED.show();
}

You need to install the library : in the Arduino IDE, go to sketch > include a library > manage library, it opens a new window where you can search for a library. Search for "JC" or "JC_Button", and click 'info' then 'install' (I hope it works like this in the English version of the IDE).
Then compile and test.

Enjoy and tell me if it works ! If yes, you can delete the commented lines.