Feel free to skip to the "Main Question" and read backwards as needed if you don't feel like reading. It really boils down to a simple question, but I present all of this information as a fun, open challenge, welcoming any suggestions for any part of the project.
Background:
I have been away from the arduino community for a few years. I made some videos a few years back, one of them has 20k views on RFID and LCDs. I have forgotten a lot though. Anyway, I work at a roller skating rink on the weekends and their light system has not been working for years. I intended to fix that. Everything I know about this system is just from me poking around. This technology is ancient, built by Diversitronics in the early 80's. Due to it's age and condition, there is no choice but to completely replace the system. The owner of the facility has yet to commit to a budget, mostly because I haven't asked, but I would imagine it can stay under $200 using quality and professional parts.
Previous system details:
The layout consists of a main "runway" with around 50 rows, 24 bulbs in each row, as well as "stars" with 12 strips and 12 bulbs in each strip. These cover a 10,000 sq ft floor. This is all not very important for what I'm asking but it draws a picture.
There are three main control boxes, at one time controlled by a separate, main control panel. One box controls the star, the other two control the runway. For simplicity's sake I'll jump right to it, ignoring the logic control of the previous system. There are 24 "channels" or outputs in each box. 12 in each for the hot 120v and 12 for the neutral. How the lights cycle is beyond me, clearly some kind of matrix, I have never seen it operating. I intend to dig up old schematics and do some tests. Each output is controlled by a triac, recieving a 10v AC trigger signal, then directly powering the output with 120v. I don't know any specific wattages, but I believe each box has a 15a breaker.
Main Question / My plan
To start simple on the arduino end, I want to control all three boxes off the same 12 pins; meaning there will only be 12 output pins from the arduino. The code is not important right now, but I plan on making them sound active lights, like a vu meter. So, how do I high speed switch 120v AC from an arduino? Currently I am thinking of using 36 (new) triacs that can be triggered via a 5v signal, which would supply the hot 120. Or cheap solid state relays? I want to hard wire all the neutrals , but I suspect they are also currently controlled individually for a reason, perhaps how the matrix operates? Obviously relays are out of the question. The lights will be rapidly cycling on and off for long periods.
I am currently a mechanical engineering major at Clarkson University. That being said, electronics are my hobby, not my life. Any constructive comments or criticisms are very welcome. This is all the information currently available.