Sorry for such a question, I am just unsure if i need to worry about the draw on such a big transistor ( since the I/O pins can only give 200ma i dont want to ruin a pin) I was looking at the datasheet for this transistor ( DATASHEET ) but I couldnt find anything about this.
Am I safe to use this transistor with an arduino? and is 5V enough to use this?
You should read this. Basically, you have to charge/discharge the gate to turn it on/off. The gate is like a capacitor. Like capacitors, you don't want a surge to charge it, or a surge when discharging it.
One solution is to put a current-limiting resistor into the gate. The makes it take time to charge it. You can pick a resistor that keeps the surge current below the Arduino pin output limit of 40ma (not 200ma!).
There are also MOSFET gate driver chips that can do this more efficiently and faster than a gate resistor.
What voltage and current are you switching, and how fast do you need to switch it? Switching it at 5V is at the bottom end of this device's capability, but it may be possible for small currents. It's not really a logic-level MOSFET.