DF Mini

How can I hook up the DF Mini and a small speaker to the arduino board? How can I connect a 3.5mm jack to the breadboard? where do I put the mp3 file in the code? I used to know this kind of stuff but its bbeen a while, thanks.

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The documentation
https://www.dfrobot.com/product-1121.html
suggests that the DAC_R and DAC_L outputs are at earphone level. You could connect a 3.5mm jack to these and ground and it looks like it's meant to work.

here is a library for that:

DFPlayerMini_Fast

check the examples to see what it can do

the same sound chip is in the Catalex YX-5300 module, with a serial interface. I can’t tie up that many pins

The DFPlayer Mini does also have an onboard amplifier so it can drive a speaker directly rather than using the DAC_L and DAC_R outputs through an external amplifier.