I found my error, the diagram the website provides is for another LCD, i used the diagram from the starter kit, and it worked! i had to re-upload the code, because I was getting strange symblos 
@moderaror,
please lock post, thanks
I found my error, the diagram the website provides is for another LCD, i used the diagram from the starter kit, and it worked! i had to re-upload the code, because I was getting strange symblos
@moderaror,
please lock post, thanks