do 2 things at once (millis ?)

Tell me your opinion

My opinion is that there are plenty of examples around of doing two, or more, things at once, and that more examples are not needed.

My opinion is that you can exercise your google-fu and find them yourself.

My opinion is that using millis() to record when one event happened, and to determine how long ago that happened, is trivial enough that you shouldn't need examples.

Well, you did ask.