DS3234 Deadon RTC with NTP question

Maybe I can help here.....
I have a sketch wich uses NTP to sync my DS3234. The sketch uses my Arduino Duemilanove, an Ardino Ethernet R3 Shield and a DS3234.
The shield is stacked on the Duemilanove and the DS is connected like this; SS – pin 8, MOSI – pin 11, MISO – pin12, and SCK – Pin13.
I connected the shield to my local network and uploaded the sketch....

Please note that the sketch uses the mac-address of my ethernet shield, change it to yours. Also I use the RTC_DS3234.h library.

/*
 
 Udp NTP Client
  
 Get the time from a Network Time Protocol (NTP) time server
 Demonstrates use of UDP sendPacket and ReceivePacket 
 For more on NTP time servers and the messages needed to communicate with them, 
 see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Network_Time_Protocol
   
 This code is in the public domain.
 
 */
 
#include <SPI.h>         
#include <Wire.h>
#include <RTClib.h>
#include <RTC_DS3234.h>
#include <Ethernet.h>
#include <EthernetUdp.h>

// Avoid spurious warnings
#undef PROGMEM
#define PROGMEM __attribute__(( section(".progmem.data") ))
#undef PSTR
#define PSTR(s) (__extension__({static prog_char __c[] PROGMEM = (s); &__c[0];}))

// Create an RTC instance, using the chip select pin it's connected to
const int  RTCchipSelect = 8; //chip select 
RTC_DS3234 RTC(RTCchipSelect);

// Enter a MAC address for your controller below.
 // Newer Ethernet shields have a MAC address printed on a sticker on the shield
byte mac[] = {  
  0x90, 0xA2, 0xDA, 0x0D, 0x09, 0x24 }; // Change this to your Ethernet Shield's mac!
 
unsigned int localPort = 8888;      // local port to listen for UDP packets
 
IPAddress timeServer(192, 43, 244, 18); // time.nist.gov NTP server
 
const int NTP_PACKET_SIZE= 48; // NTP time stamp is in the first 48 bytes of the message
 
byte packetBuffer[ NTP_PACKET_SIZE]; //buffer to hold incoming and outgoing packets 

// A UDP instance to let us send and receive packets over UDP
EthernetUDP Udp;
 
void setup() 
{
  // Open serial communications and wait for port to open:
   Serial.begin(9600);
    while (!Serial) {
     ; // wait for serial port to connect. Needed for Leonardo only
   }
 
  
  // start Ethernet and UDP
  if (Ethernet.begin(mac) == 0) {
    Serial.println("Failed to configure Ethernet using DHCP");
    // no point in carrying on, so do nothing forevermore:
    for(;;)
      ;
   }
   Udp.begin(localPort);
 }

void loop()
{
  sendNTPpacket(timeServer); // send an NTP packet to a time server
   
  // wait to see if a reply is available
  delay(1000);  
  if ( Udp.parsePacket() ) {  
    // We've received a packet, read the data from it
    Udp.read(packetBuffer,NTP_PACKET_SIZE);  // read the packet into the buffer
    
    //the timestamp starts at byte 40 of the received packet and is four bytes,
    // or two words, long. First, esxtract the two words:
    
    unsigned long highWord = word(packetBuffer[40], packetBuffer[41]);
    unsigned long lowWord = word(packetBuffer[42], packetBuffer[43]);  
    // combine the four bytes (two words) into a long integer
    // this is NTP time (seconds since Jan 1 1900):
    unsigned long secsSince1900 = highWord << 16 | lowWord;  
    Serial.print("Seconds since Jan 1 1900 = " );
    Serial.println(secsSince1900);               
    
    // now convert NTP time into everyday time:
    Serial.print("Unix time = ");
    // Unix time starts on Jan 1 1970. In seconds, that's 2208988800:
    const unsigned long seventyYears = 2208988800UL;     
    // subtract seventy years:
    unsigned long epoch = secsSince1900 - seventyYears;  
    // print Unix time:
    Serial.println(epoch);
        
    // Syncing the UTC to the RTC
    SPI.begin();
    RTC.begin();
    SetTimeDate(DateTime(epoch).day(), DateTime(epoch).month(), DateTime(epoch).year() - 2000, DateTime(epoch).hour(), DateTime(epoch).minute(), DateTime(epoch).second());
    Serial.println(ReadTimeDate());
    SPI.setDataMode(SPI_MODE0);
    
    // print the hour, minute and second:
    Serial.print("The UTC time is ");       // UTC is the time at Greenwich Meridian (GMT)
    Serial.print((epoch  % 86400L) / 3600); // print the hour (86400 equals secs per day)
    Serial.print(':');  
    if ( ((epoch % 3600) / 60) < 10 ) {
      // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
      Serial.print('0');
    }
    Serial.print((epoch  % 3600) / 60); // print the minute (3600 equals secs per minute)
    Serial.print(':'); 
    if ( (epoch % 60) < 10 ) {
      // In the first 10 seconds of each minute, we'll want a leading '0'
      Serial.print('0');
    }
    Serial.println(epoch %60); // print the second
  }
  // wait a second before asking for the time again
  delay(1000); 
}
 
// send an NTP request to the time server at the given address 
unsigned long sendNTPpacket(IPAddress& address)
{
  // set all bytes in the buffer to 0
  memset(packetBuffer, 0, NTP_PACKET_SIZE); 
  // Initialize values needed to form NTP request
  // (see URL above for details on the packets)
  packetBuffer[0] = 0b11100011;   // LI, Version, Mode
  packetBuffer[1] = 0;     // Stratum, or type of clock
  packetBuffer[2] = 6;     // Polling Interval
  packetBuffer[3] = 0xEC;  // Peer Clock Precision
  // 8 bytes of zero for Root Delay & Root Dispersion
  packetBuffer[12]  = 49; 
  packetBuffer[13]  = 0x4E;
  packetBuffer[14]  = 49;
  packetBuffer[15]  = 52;
  
  // all NTP fields have been given values, now
  // you can send a packet requesting a timestamp:         
  Udp.beginPacket(address, 123); //NTP requests are to port 123
  Udp.write(packetBuffer,NTP_PACKET_SIZE);
  Udp.endPacket(); 
}

//=====================================
String ReadTimeDate(){
	String temp;
	int TimeDate [7]; //second,minute,hour,null,day,month,year		
	SPI.setDataMode(SPI_MODE1);
        for(int i=0; i<=6;i++){
		if(i==3)
			i++;
		digitalWrite(RTCchipSelect, LOW);
		SPI.transfer(i+0x00); 
		unsigned int n = SPI.transfer(0x00);        
		digitalWrite(RTCchipSelect, HIGH);
		int a=n & B00001111;    
		if(i==2){	
			int b=(n & B00110000)>>4; //24 hour mode
			if(b==B00000010)
				b=20;        
			else if(b==B00000001)
				b=10;
			TimeDate[i]=a+b;
		}
		else if(i==4){
			int b=(n & B00110000)>>4;
			TimeDate[i]=a+b*10;
		}
		else if(i==5){
			int b=(n & B00010000)>>4;
			TimeDate[i]=a+b*10;
		}
		else if(i==6){
			int b=(n & B11110000)>>4;
			TimeDate[i]=a+b*10;
		}
		else{	
			int b=(n & B01110000)>>4;
			TimeDate[i]=a+b*10;	
			}
	}
        //Year
	temp.concat("20") ;
        if (TimeDate[6] < 10 ) {
           // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
           temp.concat("0");
        }
	temp.concat(TimeDate[6]);
	temp.concat("-") ;
        //Month
        if (TimeDate[5] < 10 ) {
           // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
           temp.concat("0");
        }
	temp.concat(TimeDate[5]);
	temp.concat("-") ;
        //Day
        if (TimeDate[4] < 10 ) {
           // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
           temp.concat("0");
        }
	temp.concat(TimeDate[4]);
	temp.concat("\t") ;
        //Hours
        if (TimeDate[2] < 10 ) {
           // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
           temp.concat("0");
        }
	temp.concat(TimeDate[2]);
	temp.concat(":") ;
        //Minutes
        if (TimeDate[1] < 10 ) {
           // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
           temp.concat("0");
        }
	temp.concat(TimeDate[1]);
	temp.concat(":") ;
        //Seconds
        if (TimeDate[0] < 10 ) {
           // In the first 10 minutes of each hour, we'll want a leading '0'
           temp.concat("0");
        }
	temp.concat(TimeDate[0]);
  return(temp);
}

//=====================================
int SetTimeDate(int d, int mo, int y, int h, int mi, int s){ 
	int TimeDate [7]={s,mi,h,0,d,mo,y};
	SPI.setDataMode(SPI_MODE1);
        for(int i=0; i<=6; i++){
		if(i==3)
			i++;
		int b= TimeDate[i]/10;
		int a= TimeDate[i]-b*10;
		if(i==2){
			if (b==2)
				b=B00000010;
			else if (b==1)
				b=B00000001;
		}	
		TimeDate[i]= a+(b<<4);
		  
		digitalWrite(RTCchipSelect, LOW);
		SPI.transfer(i+0x80); 
		SPI.transfer(TimeDate[i]);        
		digitalWrite(RTCchipSelect, HIGH);
  }
}

Here's a screen shot from the Serial console in the attachment.

NTP-DS3234.png