OK. Update time.
Took the lock down to the auto electrician.
Connected the striker directly to a 12V battery, and energised as it should.
Also tried on a stand alone standard 12VDC alarm backup battery ( 7Ah ) and also operated fine.
Added an amp meter on the positive line in series, and registered 3.3A. So it looks like my home power supply and home system wiring is OK, and the hall effect sensor is registering the right current range that is actually being used. ( I was starting to wonder if I had some other serious error in my complete setup )
Went back to the security supply store. Chap there says that they usually connect these strikers to a wall plug-in AC adapter - input 230 VAC, output 16 VAC, 16 VA, 1A. He had a box full of these and says they never had any problems using them. He can't understand why it is drawing 3.3A. The rating is 350mA, 8-14 Vac / dc.
To solve the problem of not having a gate lock : if I want to connect the striker to one of these AC adapters, would it be safe to connect 1 of the AC lines directly and permanently to the striker ( like I currently have the 12VDC Ground connected ) and pass the other line through my relay ( com to no pins, controlled by the Arduino ) ?
Does it matter which line I use for the permanent connected line ?
Should the striker still have a diode over the contacts, or is that not applicable if I am using an AC supply ?
Is it possible that a coil that draws 3.3 A on a 12VDC circuit, would draw less than 1A on 16VAC ?
ps .. just found this statement on google :
DC coils need enough resistance in the windings to limit the current, and AC ones limit it with inductance.
So does this mean that the coil ( most likely designed for AC usage ), if used with AC would draw the rated 350mA, but has little resistance, so if used on a DC circuit, would be the same as a 'short' ( as suggested by the low 12 ohm reading between Ground and the positive side of the coil when in the off position ) and would rely on the DC power supply having a high enough peak rated to be able to 'over-power' the short for the duration that the coil is energised. If this is the case, wouldn't a resistor in series on the 12VDC supply to the coil limit the current, thereby preventing the total and system fatal short ? I think that if this is the case, the supplier should clearly indicate that although the coil is rated for AC and DC, the use of DC does require additional circuitry and / or a much more powerful ( and hardy ) power supply.