fade sketch help

Hi guys. I'm having a real problem with a seemingly simple sketch and I've been working for a long time to try and find a solution. I have little to no coding knowledge and am very new to arduino and coding.

Problem;

the basic sketches that are built in allow the fade program to run just fine.
But when i try to add a delay after the led goes back off, I can only ever achieve adding a delay between
increments of brightness.

to be clear, i want to control how long the led stays off before it starts to brighten again each time.

any assistance would be greatly appreciated. I look forward to hearing from you all and learning more.

thanks - Stee

as I keep being told, need to see your full code, usually no code = no help

Yep, kinda hard to see where your problem is if we can't see your code.

Using the "Fading" example from the IDE:

int ledPin = 9;    // LED connected to digital pin 9

void setup() {
  // nothing happens in setup
}

void loop() {
  // fade in from min to max in increments of 5 points:
  for (int fadeValue = 0 ; fadeValue <= 255; fadeValue += 5) {
    // sets the value (range from 0 to 255):
    analogWrite(ledPin, fadeValue);
    // wait for 30 milliseconds to see the dimming effect
    delay(30);
  }

  // fade out from max to min in increments of 5 points:
  for (int fadeValue = 255 ; fadeValue >= 0; fadeValue -= 5) {
    // sets the value (range from 0 to 255):
    analogWrite(ledPin, fadeValue);
    // wait for 30 milliseconds to see the dimming effect
    delay(30);
  }
//          ---Try putting your delay here---
}