failing to make an E switch with mosfets...

Wawa:
That would drop Vgs to a safe value of 4.58volt, but also would make switching of the fets sloooow.
That could still kill the fets of they are switching heavy loads.
Leo..

Ok so from what I understood when the Vgs is low the FET resistance gets high and that's also what I don't want sins these two have to be able to handle a load of 60A with no heatsink...

What would then be the proper way(in terms of reliability and operation) to turn it on and off using that switch(when having the switch as a short the FETS should allow current to pass and when the switch opens it should be close.)

Thanks for helping again!